Make a Plan

Make sure your officiant will accept personalized vows.

Decide with your fiance whether you are going to write the vows together or not.

Decide if you are going to show them to each other before the ceremony.

Establish a structure that you both stick to.

Pick a length and stick to it.

Writing the Vows

Find inspiration.

Make sure that you have plenty of quiet time to work on your vows.

Keep the words positive and personal.

Stick to the happy memories.

Avoid talking about the bad times.

Express your exact feelings about the person you are about to marry.

Don't be afraid to use words from a song or movie that are special to you and your partner.

Once written, read your vows aloud to make sure the language flows well.

Practice reading it on your own, several times to make sure you are comfortable with it.

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Who it's for

This Vows Writing Checklist is for anyone who wants a simple, practical way to get things done without missing steps.

Avoid forgetting - keep all your Vows Writing essentials in one place (external memory)
Save time - start from a proven Vows Writing structure instead of a blank page
Stay on track - track progress, come back later, and keep momentum
Coordinate with others - share the list and divide responsibilities
Learn the process - follow the steps in a sensible order, even if it's your first time

How to use this Vows Writing Checklist

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Customize it in the app: remove anything that does not apply, then add your own details for Vows Writing (dates, sizes, addresses, notes).
If others are involved, invite them to collaborate and divide responsibilities.
Work through the list: check items off as you go, and set reminders for time-sensitive steps.

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