First Date Checklist - Women
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Hygiene and personal care
Shower using your favorite body wash or soap
Scrub the skin and face with a gentle exfoliant after sudsing for soft, smooth skin.
Brush and floss, and pack mints
Practice good dental hygiene before and during the date.
Shampoo and style your hair
Pack mini versions of hair spray or other products if you think you'll need to touch up during the date.
Apply your usual "date" makeup
Wear your favorite "going out" look, which may include more eye makeup or a bolder lip color. Carry a compact and lip gloss in your bag for mid-date reapplication.
Spray your favorite perfume and don't forget the deodorant
Pack a travel size version of your perfume in your bag if it's not particularly long-lasting.
Clothing and shoes
Wear heels to make your legs look longer
If you do not think you will have to walk around a lot throughout the course of the date, go for flattering high-heeled shoes. If the date involves a lot of physical activity, stick to comfortable flats.
Pick an outfit a day or so before the date
Find a dress, top and skirt, or top and pants that best suits your shape. Wear an outfit that makes you feel comfortable and sexy without revealing too much cleavage or showing off your entire midriff.
Date destination
Write down taxi company numbers before you leave for the date
;Keep one or two cab numbers with you for in case one or both of you cannot drive by the evening's end.
Suggest meeting him at a particular restaurant or other location if that makes you feel more comfortable than getting picked up.
Etiquette and behavior
Laugh at his jokes, but don't force it
You don't want to look like you're trying too hard.
Silence your phone
Show respect by not taking calls, texting or checking your phone throughout the date.
Don't feel like you have to talk all the time
A few moments of silence is better than forced conversations.
Avoid talking about your ex.
Lay off the alcohol
Keep your wits about you at all times during a first date, so say no to that third double vodka martini.
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First dates are often nerve-racking, whether it's a blind date or an outing with someone you've known for years. Rather than waiting to the last minute to make dinner reservations or to plan what you are going to wear, create a list of items you need and things you should do before the big night. First dates can be daunting enough without worrying whether you've packed enough breath mints or have enough gas in your vehicle.
Tips
• Eat breath mints as needed. If you've been sitting with your mouth closed for a long period of time, such as during a movie or theatrical production, pop a mint post-show to kill the odor-causing bacteria that has accumulated.
• Avoid new makeup, hairstyles and clothing ideas before the date. Stick to your normal look so you'll feel confident and self-assured.
Who it's for
This First Date Checklist - Women is for anyone who wants a simple, practical way to get things done without missing steps.
- Avoid forgetting - keep all your First Date Checklist - Women essentials in one place (external memory)
- Save time - start from a proven First Date Checklist - Women structure instead of a blank page
- Stay on track - track progress, come back later, and keep momentum
- Coordinate with others - share the list and divide responsibilities
- Learn the process - follow the steps in a sensible order, even if it's your first time
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- Save First Date Checklist - Women to your free Checklist account so your progress is saved and synced across devices.
- Customize it in the app: remove anything that does not apply, then add your own details for First Date Checklist - Women (dates, sizes, addresses, notes).
- If others are involved, invite them to collaborate and divide responsibilities.
- Work through the list: check items off as you go, and set reminders for time-sensitive steps.