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Toggle Hygiene and personal care status

Hygiene and personal care

Toggle Shower using your favorite body wash or soap. status

Shower using your favorite body wash or soap.

Toggle ;Shampoo your hair. status

;Shampoo your hair.

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Remember to brush and floss

;Keep your breath smelling fresh all night ;by practicing good dental hygiene before the date and by popping a mint or two throughout.
Toggle ;Swipe deodorant and spray cologne status

;Swipe deodorant and spray cologne

;Smell amazing throughout the date by using these products before you go out. But take care not to drown yourself in cologne.
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Clothing and shoes

Toggle Wear comfortable shoes status

Wear comfortable shoes

;Unless you are going to be sitting down for the majority of the evening, comfortable shoes are essential so long as they match your ensemble.
Toggle Make clothing decisions ahead of time status

Make clothing decisions ahead of time

;Choose an outfit at least a day before your date to avoid scrambling at the last minute.
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Date destination

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Make dinner reservations

;Choose a nearby establishment that's familiar to both of you. This means less time looking at directions and driving, and a comfortable atmosphere will make both of you feel at ease. Whoever makes the reservations should discuss food tastes with the other to avoid allergy and diet restriction issues.
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Confirm the reservations

;Call the restaurant at least 45 minutes before your reservation to avoid embarrassment or time slot confusion.
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Pick her up

Offer to come fetch her unless she wants to meet you at the destination. Make sure your vehicle has enough gas and is running properly.
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Make additional event reservations

;Tickets may be required for some date destinations, such as a movie and dinner date.
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Etiquette and behavior

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Ask lots of questions

This is crucial, but avoid it turning into an "interview." Ask about her background, occupation, education, family, friends and anything else you can think of that is appropriate to ask on a first date. Listen to the responses and have your own opinions on things rather than simply agreeing with everything she says.
Toggle Be courteous to her and everyone around you status

Be courteous to her and everyone around you

It is very important to be polite to your date. However, how you treat servers, people at the bar, movie theater ushers, or anyone you come in contact with while on the date will also demonstrate what kind of person you are.
Toggle Avoid "ex" talk status

Avoid "ex" talk

;Keep discussion of past relationships to a severe minimum on a first date to avoid making each other feel uncomfortable.
Toggle Don't get too intoxicated status

Don't get too intoxicated

;While a cocktail or two is acceptable to help calm your nerves, you shouldn't be looking to get sloppy drunk on a first date.
Toggle Keep your phone on silent. status

Keep your phone on silent.

Toggle Open car and establishment doors for her. status

Open car and establishment doors for her.

Toggle Refrain from making too many negative comments status

Refrain from making too many negative comments

;Stick to positive statements and opinions to avoid bad first impressions.
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Pay the check

As a general rule, the man should reach for the bill first. Though you may opt to "go dutch" on later dates, impress her by discretely paying the bill on your first date.

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First impressions are everything. That's never more true than on a first date. You want to wow her with your good looks, charm and chivalry. And you can easily do so, just by following a few simple guidelines. Plan ahead, prepare yourself, and most important of all, be yourself and have a great time.

Tips

• Don't be too pushy. If you want to move beyond a first date, it is important to let your date know, though you should avoid too much physical contact unless the events of the evening warrant it.

• Maintain eye contact, but don't stare. Eye contact is great, though overly intense staring from either party can seem creepy.

Who it's for

This First Date Checklist - Men is for anyone who wants a simple, practical way to get things done without missing steps.

  • Avoid forgetting - keep all your First Date Checklist - Men essentials in one place (external memory)
  • Save time - start from a proven First Date Checklist - Men structure instead of a blank page
  • Stay on track - track progress, come back later, and keep momentum
  • Coordinate with others - share the list and divide responsibilities
  • Learn the process - follow the steps in a sensible order, even if it's your first time

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  • Customize it in the app: remove anything that does not apply, then add your own details for First Date Checklist - Men (dates, sizes, addresses, notes).
  • If others are involved, invite them to collaborate and divide responsibilities.
  • Work through the list: check items off as you go, and set reminders for time-sensitive steps.

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