Planning the Ceremony
Decide when to host the vow renewal.
Pick a place that is meaningful to the two of you.
Get a copy of your vows.
If possible, find the priest, rabbi, clergyman, or other officiant who married you the first time.
Decide if you want to invite guests.
Celebrate - either the two of you or with family and friends.
Vow Renewal Etiquette
Do not organize bachelor/bachelorette parties.
Encourage friends and family to shower you with love and support, rather than gifts.
Vow Renewal is generally not viewed as a gift-giving situation.
Parents should not be involved in the finances of vow renewal ceremony.
Incorporate some of the traditions from your wedding day, but make new ones as well.
You may use your original attendants but, it is better to simply invite them as guests.
The father doesn't need to publicly show his approval or support of the marriage.
Put together your bouquet with care and consideration.
All of your guests should be acquainted with you.
You can still dance a couple's first dance.
Choose for 'anniversary' type cake.
The toasts should reflect upon the couple's continued love.

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