Vow Renewal Checklist

Planning the Ceremony

• Decide when to host the vow renewal.
• Pick a place that is meaningful to the two of you.
• Get a copy of your vows.
• If possible, find the priest, rabbi, clergyman, or other officiant who married you the first time.
• Decide if you want to invite guests.
• Celebrate - either the two of you or with family and friends.

Vow Renewal Etiquette

• Do not organize bachelor/bachelorette parties.
• Encourage friends and family to shower you with love and support, rather than gifts.
• Vow Renewal is generally not viewed as a gift-giving situation.
• Parents should not be involved in the finances of vow renewal ceremony.
• Incorporate some of the traditions from your wedding day, but make new ones as well.
• You may use your original attendants but, it is better to simply invite them as guests.
• The father doesn't need to publicly show his approval or support of the marriage.
• Put together your bouquet with care and consideration.
• All of your guests should be acquainted with you.
• You can still dance a couple's first dance.
• Choose for 'anniversary' type cake.
• The toasts should reflect upon the couple's continued love.